I feel like high value men and women exist for those who need the title, because what exactly is high value? And does the definition change dependent on the people involved? And if it changes, does that mean there is not a single way to determine what it is. Before the internet we simply experienced life to define these things for us. Now everyone is searching for answers online, creating carbon copies of things many of us don't and may never align with. or even worst start changing into because it's what is socially acceptable or trendy. I personally don't want a man just for what he can provide for me financially, but that doesn't mean I want him broke either. Maybe I'm an outlier of those who want romance but I embrace that we may have to struggle when aiming to create a certain lifestyle too. I mean isn't that the beauty of vows? The good and bad, navigating the dualities of life together? Maybe because I'm more of a spiritual person, thinking about the valleys in my growth with God, the valleys made my walk stronger. It seems as if the only things these titles created was more separation and a generation of lonely, confused and fearful people, who'd rather choose being single over failing at love.
Thank you for your comment! We are definitely hoping to continue this column monthly and explore these topics and conversations. If there’s any perspectives you have that are relationship related or questions, please feel free to share.
I hate the phrase “High Value” so much. Does that mean that others can be “Low Value”? Like….merchandise? Have we really become that comfortable parroting the voice of the oppressor? 🤔
These are precisely the conversations we hope to explore via lovestack. My guess is that our perspectives will be as diverse and rich as we are, so if there’s any relationship related topics you want to explore, pls feel free to share.
Please do let us know if you have any relationship related questions and perspectives you want to explore. The goal is for this to become a recurring series that opens up conversation, so do feel free to share!
I feel like high value men and women exist for those who need the title, because what exactly is high value? And does the definition change dependent on the people involved? And if it changes, does that mean there is not a single way to determine what it is. Before the internet we simply experienced life to define these things for us. Now everyone is searching for answers online, creating carbon copies of things many of us don't and may never align with. or even worst start changing into because it's what is socially acceptable or trendy. I personally don't want a man just for what he can provide for me financially, but that doesn't mean I want him broke either. Maybe I'm an outlier of those who want romance but I embrace that we may have to struggle when aiming to create a certain lifestyle too. I mean isn't that the beauty of vows? The good and bad, navigating the dualities of life together? Maybe because I'm more of a spiritual person, thinking about the valleys in my growth with God, the valleys made my walk stronger. It seems as if the only things these titles created was more separation and a generation of lonely, confused and fearful people, who'd rather choose being single over failing at love.
Thank you for your comment! We are definitely hoping to continue this column monthly and explore these topics and conversations. If there’s any perspectives you have that are relationship related or questions, please feel free to share.
I hate the phrase “High Value” so much. Does that mean that others can be “Low Value”? Like….merchandise? Have we really become that comfortable parroting the voice of the oppressor? 🤔
These are precisely the conversations we hope to explore via lovestack. My guess is that our perspectives will be as diverse and rich as we are, so if there’s any relationship related topics you want to explore, pls feel free to share.
Lovestack makes my love filled heart so damned happy. Ugh 😩
I want to know everything about this!!!!
I’m ready with my 🖊️
Please do let us know if you have any relationship related questions and perspectives you want to explore. The goal is for this to become a recurring series that opens up conversation, so do feel free to share!