We must realize we deserve it all because it is ours. The way we style our hair, the way we walk and talk, the unbreakable bond that holds together our love, we are the foundation, we can build more!
I pray that you are, in divine timing, once again seduced by writing and that your pen becomes your muse to release your pain. A therapy in some sort. As you cope with the physical loss of a parent, I pray you see yourself standing in your Dad's midst as a powerful spiritual guide on the other side.
in concerns to seeking out "high value" my definition has never been centered around monetary success. I find it boring and easily distracting from what makes a person "your person". So in short - no I've personally never sought after the societal definition of "high-value". I think the movie "Daddy's Girls" portray him as less than only because of his financial bracket ( cough & kids) in comparison to Gabrielle because she is in the corporate world.
But on average mechanics can make upwards to 6 figures or more and it's a life-time need for as long as people are driving cars. Meaning that, that man would never be out of work and could be a business owner, hire staff to take over to free up time for family, open multiple locations, etc.
The issue seems to be that there a more black women who've experienced disappointment with trying to give those types a chance ( those deemed as less than), because men themselves only see their worth/ value through money, which is then projected onto women in the form of resentment and disdain because she has more money. So, women are left with having to make the alternate decision to choose someone with more money to by-pass or avoid those types of results.
I mean men can't cry about being used for money and simultaneously if a woman doesn't need that type of provision she's then called masculine.
And another issue is created.
Is she being masculine or are you projecting as a man?
Pick a struggle
The dating world is comedic to say the least.
I'm sure there are examples of a woman throwing her weight around due to financial success, which leads to the ever evasive opportunity for resolution between the sexes because everyone's experiences are thrown into a gumbo of betrayal, fear and doubt online making everyone confused and refusing to choose their own individual paths in love.
They're using random people's experiences online to dictate how they approach love, instead of embracing that everybody plays the fool.............SOMETIMES. We live in a world of duality. We experience one side to appreciate the other. I'm not saying it always feels good. I'm saying it's our reality. When we embrace that when the right side is presented we should, based on experiences, appreciate and hold onto it, both men & women it'll stop feeling like a game of Chess. But most choose to play mental and emotional gymnastics to avoid being hurt. Sorry for the long post.......... I'm currently writing my second book and relationship dynamics are one of the challenges within those pages, so this post fired me up 😂😂
I pray that you are, in divine timing, once again seduced by writing and that your pen becomes your muse to release your pain. A therapy in some sort. As you cope with the physical loss of a parent, I pray you see yourself standing in your Dad's midst as a powerful spiritual guide on the other side.
Moon, thank you so much for praying over ME! You just don't know how much this means to me. THANK YOU!
HETEPU !!! Your Daddy is over there making moves on your behalf, believe that!
So glad y’all are writing. I’m in an unfamiliar space and having your words pour into me at this time is a gift.
in concerns to seeking out "high value" my definition has never been centered around monetary success. I find it boring and easily distracting from what makes a person "your person". So in short - no I've personally never sought after the societal definition of "high-value". I think the movie "Daddy's Girls" portray him as less than only because of his financial bracket ( cough & kids) in comparison to Gabrielle because she is in the corporate world.
But on average mechanics can make upwards to 6 figures or more and it's a life-time need for as long as people are driving cars. Meaning that, that man would never be out of work and could be a business owner, hire staff to take over to free up time for family, open multiple locations, etc.
The issue seems to be that there a more black women who've experienced disappointment with trying to give those types a chance ( those deemed as less than), because men themselves only see their worth/ value through money, which is then projected onto women in the form of resentment and disdain because she has more money. So, women are left with having to make the alternate decision to choose someone with more money to by-pass or avoid those types of results.
I mean men can't cry about being used for money and simultaneously if a woman doesn't need that type of provision she's then called masculine.
And another issue is created.
Is she being masculine or are you projecting as a man?
Pick a struggle
The dating world is comedic to say the least.
I'm sure there are examples of a woman throwing her weight around due to financial success, which leads to the ever evasive opportunity for resolution between the sexes because everyone's experiences are thrown into a gumbo of betrayal, fear and doubt online making everyone confused and refusing to choose their own individual paths in love.
They're using random people's experiences online to dictate how they approach love, instead of embracing that everybody plays the fool.............SOMETIMES. We live in a world of duality. We experience one side to appreciate the other. I'm not saying it always feels good. I'm saying it's our reality. When we embrace that when the right side is presented we should, based on experiences, appreciate and hold onto it, both men & women it'll stop feeling like a game of Chess. But most choose to play mental and emotional gymnastics to avoid being hurt. Sorry for the long post.......... I'm currently writing my second book and relationship dynamics are one of the challenges within those pages, so this post fired me up 😂😂